Options…There are so many!

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There have never been so many options for your wedding flowers! Whether it is for just the bridal bouquet and grooms flower or for the entire wedding party it seems your choices are limitless.

1) Fresh flowers: You can never go wrong with fresh flowers as a beautiful bouquet. The upside is they are fresh and fragrant. The down side is that by the time you are back from your honeymoon they are long gone unless you arrange for a preservationist or a family member to preserve them. Another downside is that many flowers are not available year around so you may be out of luck if your chosen flowers are out of season.
2) Button bouquets: What a neat idea. Several of the businesses I follow on Facebook incorporate the bride’s own buttons and or other trinkets. Check out these pages: https://www.facebook.com/IHeartButtonsuk?hc_location=stream, https://www.facebook.com/LOVEbouquets?hc_location=stream,
3) Silk flowers: There are so many silk and artificial flowers available from inexpensive dollar store stems to high end look like real stems. Many DIY brides choose to go with artificial flowers because they can be arranged and rearranged to their specifications. There are companies that specialize in using silk flowers and incorporating brooches and embellishments that create stunning bouquets. Here is one company that I follow that does stunning designs. https://www.facebook.com/TheTiaraBoutique?fref=pb&hc_location=profile_browser
4) Handmade flowers in fabrics and ribbons and paper flowers: These bouquets are fully customizable and can be designed to resemble fresh flowers that otherwise would be out of season. Here are two Facebook pages to view: https://www.facebook.com/ForeverPaperPetals?fref=pb&hc_location=profile_browser, https://www.facebook.com/pages/Cocroft-and-Delbridge/321051567622,
5) Feather flowers: Check out ETSY and Pinterest for some awesome feather bouquets.
6) Brooch bouquets: Are very popular! Brooch bouquets can be personalized by using your own collection or by asking each of your friends and family members to send you a brooch that can be included in your bouquet. Here is one of my favorite pages for brooch bouquets: https://www.facebook.com/LillybudsBespokeBouquets?fref=pb&hc_location=profile_browser
7) Or a combination. Many brides still want the traditional real flower bouquet for themselves and what I recommend is that they consider mixing the bouquet with live flowers and then incorporating another type of “flower” that can be removed and saved as a memento/heirloom. Combine brooches with ribbon/fabric flowers, Paper flowers with buttons, and the list goes on… not only can you choose flowers, now you can choose items to add. Fabric, jewelry, etc. from a beloved family member or pet. Love a cartoon character, super hero, and princess, whatever it is it can be incorporated very tastefully into any bouquet or grooms flower.

The options are boundless and allow the couple to fully personalize their arrangements!


Enjoy Your Wedding!

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All your life you have dreamt of your big day…your Wedding Day! Your dolls have been married too many times to count and there have been so many pretend weddings that everyone has been married (at least once)! Now you have met your future spouse and have your dream ring…it’s time to plan the wedding that you have always imagined! You don’t want to leave anything to chance.

Whether you are engaged for a short time or a long period it seems like FOREVER and you want to remember every moment of the planning (well almost every moment…there will be a few tears and/or tense moments). Everything passes so quickly – the planning, the showers, the parties and then the wedding day.

But wait! Don’t let it all pass so quickly! Enjoy every moment! Make memories along the way bond with your friends, family and of course fiancé. Decrease the stressful situations before they start and increase the fun.

When shopping for your wedding dress everyone wants to come, but in this case more is not necessarily merrier. When too many people are involved it tends to become more about what they like and think you should wear rather that what you want. Feelings get hurt and you end up stressed and overwhelmed! Just ask a few of your closest confidants and make a day of it. When my daughter was planning her wedding several years ago she invited her maid of honor (who happened to be her sister) and myself. We knew her style and helped her choose the gown that made her feel like a princess. She was able to focus and find her “perfect” dress and then enjoy a dinner and drinks to celebrate! A suggestion to include all of your girlfriends and the mother of the groom is have an “unveiling” party. Invite everyone over for dessert and drinks then model your dress before the big day. They feel included and you have another opportunity to make great memories.

Keep your wedding about you and your fiancé. You both love something a bit quirky and want to incorporate that in your wedding or reception. It is almost guaranteed that you will hear about it and sometimes you have to gently let someone who means well, know that you appreciate their suggestions but that you have definite ideas of what you want.

Are you a DIY bride? Why not get together with your bridesmaids, etc. and have a girl’s night to work on the project or projects. Look for DIY classes in your area. They may offer private group classes to teach you how to make some of the cool things you’ve seen on Pinterest.

It is easy to stress during this time and maybe not take as much time for yourself and your fiancé. Plan date nights for just the two of you or if either of you have children include them in a zoo or park date. Take a few minutes for yourself whenever you can. Read, exercise, soak in a tub, whatever relaxes you! Laugh and smile and enjoy the little things.

Don’t sweat the small stuff on your wedding day. On my daughter’s wedding day, we had to switch around the best man’s tie with another tie, someone was missing their vest, someone forgot to turn on the speakers for the front half of the chapel so that the processional music wasn’t heard but no one noticed and everyone had a great time.

It’s your wedding day and it will fly by! Try to take a little time to breathe, relax and enjoy. There is an old saying, that you will enjoy everyone else’s wedding more than yours. This is a result of being the center of attention and everyone wants your attention. Try to eat some food, have a drink and dance the night away.

Life is Beauty Full! Enjoy!


Wedding Flowers…Fresh or Alternative

Wedding Flowers…Fresh or Alternative? That is the question.
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As if your head wasn’t already swirling with all of those wedding planning details, now there are more decisions to make. Do you go with fresh flowers, some type of alternative or a combination? Maybe I can help by breaking it down for you.

Fresh flowers are beautiful, traditional and smell great! They can be inexpensive if done DIY or can be as expensive as your budget will allow. There are, however, a few limitations with fresh flowers. You will have to be aware of what flowers will be available at the time of your nuptials. Many varieties of flowers are seasonal and can be very expensive if purchased out of season. Also, fresh flowers last a relatively short period of time and then will be discarded. If you are using fresh flower centerpieces I suggest giving them to family and friends to take home to enjoy or arrange for them to be delivered to a local hospital or nursing home. If you would like to preserve your bouquet then I would recommend finding a floral preservationist prior to the wedding so that your bouquet can be preserved in a display frame or case as a permanent memory of your wedding day.

When you think about alternative arrangements you probably think about artificial or “fake” flowers from your local craft store. However, there are many alternatives out there. A quick search of the Internet will help and/or search sites like ETSY for a variety of alternatives.
1. Brooch bouquets are very popular. These are gorgeous and create bling! The brooches can be new or vintage. Do you have a favorite brooch or a collection of brooches? Ask your designer to include them in your bouquet. These bouquets can be heavy so you may want to mix fresh flowers or another alternative flower with a few of your favorite brooches.
Paper flower arrangements/bouquets bring a whole new look to paper. I have seen entire weddings done with paper flowers from bouquets to boutonnieres to centerpieces. Origami flowers are made with intricately folded paper to form beautiful flowers. Do you love to read or do you love music? There are flowers made with pages from old books or sheet music. There are paper flowers that are fashioned into actual flowers such as roses, carnations, etc. The variety of paper that can be used in making flowers is endless…tissue, cardstock, and scrapbooking to name a few. For those of you who like to DIY there are tutorials on sites like YouTube, or you can buy the directions from various sites. Search the Internet for a variety of sources.
There are some very unique items that I have seen for bouquets…seashells, feathers, lollipops, and raw cotton bolls (raw clumps of cotton still in the husk) to name a few. These items can be mixed with fresh flowers as well as another alternative flower. Designers love to be creative so don’t be afraid to share your vision.
Of course, there are the artificial/”fake” flowers. These flowers have come a long way and many look quite real. If you choose to go this route please check out what you are purchasing to make sure they are of a nice quality.
The final category I will mention is the fabric or ribbon flower. Fabrics and ribbons are used to create rich textural flowers that offer a large variety of uses. Depending on the fabrics/ribbon used you can create your vision whether it be country/rustic, romantic, vintage, gothic, etc. Common fabrics/ribbons are silk, satin, taffeta, linen, burlap and felt. This type of flower works well with embellishments (add brooches, shells, etc.).

Finally, when you choose an alternative to fresh flowers you create a lasting memory to display in your home. No need to preserve, simply display. At the beginning of this article I mentioned using a combination of fresh flowers and alternatives. A mixture in a bouquet is a great way to have the best of both worlds. Adding a few fabric flowers, brooches, etc. in a fresh flower bouquet creates interest and texture. After the wedding if you don’t want to preserve your bouquet then just remove the embellishments and you will have a lasting memory.

Have fun searching out exactly what works for you!

Life is “Beauty Full”!



How Does Your Garden Grow?

Anyone who has ever tried to grow flowers or anything for that matter, know that it takes time, patience and loving care.  The flowers of Cocroft and Delbridge are just like that but without the dirt.


First, you plan out what flowers you will grow.  The outdoor gardener pours over seed catalogs, combs the internet and drives to all the area nurseries to choose just the right combination of flowers.  I pour over fabrics and embellishments, comb the internet and drive to all of the area fabric/craft stores to choose just the right combination of supplies for my flowers.


So many choices!

So many choices!

Next comes the preparation of the soil and planting the seeds and plants.  For me next comes the preparing of the materials:  cutting fabrics and ribbons to the proper length for each flower and choosing embellishments.

Different lengths are cut for different flowers

Different lengths are cut for different flowers


Petals are made one at a time.

Petals are made one at a time.

The outdoor gardener watches and waits, tends their garden weeding and watering.  I form each petal individually sewing by hand anywhere from 5 to 20 petals for each bloom and then carefully sew them together to form a flower on a stem.  Then I form leaves and attach them to the flower and then cover the raw edges with fabric to form a calyx.  I finish each stem with floral tape to give each one a finished effect.

Fabric is chosen for leaves and then they are completed and attached

Fabric is chosen for leaves and then they are completed and attached

It takes weeks sometimes months for a flower to grow to perfection whether it is lovingly grown in the ground or created by hand.

Almost done..the flower is formed around a stem and leaves are added.  Then the calyx and finished with floral tape

Almost done..the flower is formed around a stem and leaves are added. Then the calyx and finished with floral tape


Lastly, gardeners display their finished products in lovely bouquets to share their beauty!!

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Gardens that are grown with love are Beauty Full!


Until next time,