Enjoy Your Wedding!

Sept post

All your life you have dreamt of your big day…your Wedding Day! Your dolls have been married too many times to count and there have been so many pretend weddings that everyone has been married (at least once)! Now you have met your future spouse and have your dream ring…it’s time to plan the wedding that you have always imagined! You don’t want to leave anything to chance.

Whether you are engaged for a short time or a long period it seems like FOREVER and you want to remember every moment of the planning (well almost every moment…there will be a few tears and/or tense moments). Everything passes so quickly – the planning, the showers, the parties and then the wedding day.

But wait! Don’t let it all pass so quickly! Enjoy every moment! Make memories along the way bond with your friends, family and of course fiancé. Decrease the stressful situations before they start and increase the fun.

When shopping for your wedding dress everyone wants to come, but in this case more is not necessarily merrier. When too many people are involved it tends to become more about what they like and think you should wear rather that what you want. Feelings get hurt and you end up stressed and overwhelmed! Just ask a few of your closest confidants and make a day of it. When my daughter was planning her wedding several years ago she invited her maid of honor (who happened to be her sister) and myself. We knew her style and helped her choose the gown that made her feel like a princess. She was able to focus and find her “perfect” dress and then enjoy a dinner and drinks to celebrate! A suggestion to include all of your girlfriends and the mother of the groom is have an “unveiling” party. Invite everyone over for dessert and drinks then model your dress before the big day. They feel included and you have another opportunity to make great memories.

Keep your wedding about you and your fiancé. You both love something a bit quirky and want to incorporate that in your wedding or reception. It is almost guaranteed that you will hear about it and sometimes you have to gently let someone who means well, know that you appreciate their suggestions but that you have definite ideas of what you want.

Are you a DIY bride? Why not get together with your bridesmaids, etc. and have a girl’s night to work on the project or projects. Look for DIY classes in your area. They may offer private group classes to teach you how to make some of the cool things you’ve seen on Pinterest.

It is easy to stress during this time and maybe not take as much time for yourself and your fiancé. Plan date nights for just the two of you or if either of you have children include them in a zoo or park date. Take a few minutes for yourself whenever you can. Read, exercise, soak in a tub, whatever relaxes you! Laugh and smile and enjoy the little things.

Don’t sweat the small stuff on your wedding day. On my daughter’s wedding day, we had to switch around the best man’s tie with another tie, someone was missing their vest, someone forgot to turn on the speakers for the front half of the chapel so that the processional music wasn’t heard but no one noticed and everyone had a great time.

It’s your wedding day and it will fly by! Try to take a little time to breathe, relax and enjoy. There is an old saying, that you will enjoy everyone else’s wedding more than yours. This is a result of being the center of attention and everyone wants your attention. Try to eat some food, have a drink and dance the night away.

Life is Beauty Full! Enjoy!
Cathy

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